Saving Our Kids From Opioid Addiction One School at a Time
Opioid Addiction in Our Community: Justin’s Story
A key message of the project is that opioid abuse and addiction can happen to anyone and in any family. In a series of powerful YouTube video clips, South Bay resident Cyndi Strand, SBFC ambassador, blogger and speaker, reflects on the loss of her son, Justin, to opioid addiction and overdose.
“It can happen to anyone … I look at my Justin and I have to ask, ‘How did you get where you got?’ I just don’t understand how it happened,” Strand says. “He had everything going for him. He had a good family, good looks, he was intelligent, creative, kind and loving … this kid should be married now, have a family and a career — all the things that you think are going to happen when you have a baby, but drugs change all that and take all of it away.”
In the three-part video series of Justin’s story, Strand recounts how his drug problem cropped up in high school, beginning with his use of marijuana that escalated to his abuse of the opioid pain pills that he received for a back injury. Strand’s shame about Justin’s drug problem prevented her from talking about it or reaching out for help, and she now regrets that she didn’t intervene early and send Justin to an addiction treatment program for young adults.
Strand’s story illustrates how addiction can happen even to kids who grow up in a loving and supportive home because parents can miss the early signs of drug use and aren’t able to intervene before things get worse.
What Parents Can Do to Protect Their Kids
Most teens don’t realize how harmful prescription medications can be. Many assume that a drug from a doctor must be safe to use, and they often don’t realize the risk of developing physical drug tolerance that can advance to drug addiction — or how rapidly this can occur.
It is important to keep both alcohol and prescription medications locked up and out of reach, out of sight or out of the house altogether. Be alert for signs that your teen might be abusing or misusing drugs or alcohol.
Signs of drug use in teens can be subtle. The Promises Young Adult Program in West Los Angeles warns that drug and alcohol use often begin during the summer months when kids have more time on their hands, less supervision and are often exposed to new social circles and influences. Once school starts up again in the fall, summer experimentations can advance to more serious use. Working closely with teachers and administrators at your child’s school can help you spot early indications of a problem.
The Promises Young Adult Program advises parents to be on the lookout for early signs and symptoms that can indicate your teen might be struggling with emotional or psychological problems and/or has started experimenting with drugs or alcohol.
Drug or alcohol use may be occurring if your child has…
- Stopped participating in sports or quit a club or other school activity they used to enjoy
- Started hanging out with a new group of kids or has cut off contact with old friends
- Become increasingly moody, less motivated, less attentive and generally less reliable about homework or other school responsibilities
- Gotten more secretive about their activities and drops out of contact for long periods, avoiding your calls or texts
- Dodging questions about what they are doing or how they are feeling, spending more time alone and generally being more guarded
- Sleeps more or seems groggier and harder to wake up in the morning
- Been asking for more money, putting unauthorized charges on your credit card, or even stealing money or valuables from you
- Undergone changes in their appearance with noticeable weight gain/weight loss or a change in how they dress or manage their personal hygiene
If you notice any of these signs in your teen, it is time to take action. Have a conversation with your teen about how things are going and any changes that need to be made before things get out of hand. And, if you see a need, invite your child’s school to get involved in a local drug and alcohol addiction prevention campaign to raise awareness in your community.
Science Says: Why Are Opioids So Addictive? A video from the Associated Press, May 2017.
Resources for parents in the South Bay area of Los Angeles
Resources for teens in the South Bay area of Los Angeles
Information about opioid addiction and prevention campaigns in states across the U.S., SAMHSA. https://www.samhsa.gov/capt/tools-capt-learning-resources/media-campaigns-prevent-rx-drugs-opioid-misuse
Drug rehab for adults and teens, Elements Behavioral Health