Codependency Treatment at Promises
There are a number of definitions of codependency. Some define it as a dysfunctional relationship with the self that is characterized by living through or for another, attempting to control others, blaming others, a sense of victimization, trying to fix others, as well as intense anxiety around intimacy.
Codependency is also considered to be a psychological condition in which one person exhibits too much (and often inappropriate) caring for and about other people’s problems.
People with codependency addiction may have issues with substances or other destructive behaviors. At Promises Treatment Centers, codependency treatment addresses the deep underlying issues and emotional wounds that sometimes fuel codependent behaviors. Our medical and behavioral health experts craft a treatment plan that tackles all co-occurring disorders so clients can heal fully. Clients develop resiliency, self-confidence and healthy coping skills and learn what healthy relationships look like.
According to the National Institute on Drug Abuse, codependency is when another individual, typically an addict’s spouse or family member, feels controlled by the addict’s behavior. Some codependents are adult children of alcoholics or addicts. Their codependent behavior is the result of growing up in a dysfunctional environment. NIDA further states that enabling behavior is characterized by the codependent encouraging the addict to continue abusing substances, indirectly or directly.
However, codependency does not necessarily occur around addiction. Codependency can be a pattern of relating to people or a way of existing in a romantic relationship. A central feature of codependency is an unhealthy dependence on relationships, usually in an attempt to avoid feelings of abandonment.
Symptoms of codependency include:
- Controlling behavior
- Mistrust of others
- Avoidance of feelings
- Constantly seeking approval
- Low self-esteem
- Fear of abandonment
- Feeling responsible for others’ actions
- Avoidance of other relationships
- Excessive caretaking behavior
- Inability to see alternatives
- Hypervigilance, a heightened awareness for potential threat or danger
Many codependents have attachment injury or intimacy disorders, were victims of childhood trauma due to sexual or domestic abuse, had parents or siblings with addictions or have addictions of their own. For example, a child with an alcoholic father could grow up to be attracted to partners who drink excessively. When these issues begin interfering with daily activities, outpatient therapy may not be enough and residential codependency treatment centers should be considered.
Codependency and Addiction
While a person addicted to drugs or alcohol is completing treatment and/or is in recovery, often the partner left behind, the codependent, receives no help. This is difficult, not only for the addict, but also the codependent. Without assistance and support or some kind of professional codependency treatment, the codependent cannot begin to change their distorted way of thinking. The relationship cannot be sustained on a healthy level.
Codependency recovery is a process, just as overcoming addiction is a process. The codependent person wades through denial, survival tactics and unhealthy coping mechanisms developed over time. Codependents often have an addiction to one or more substances or behaviors. These are often means of coping with pressures and stresses of living with an addict. Sorting through all this takes time. Professional help such as time in codependency treatment centers or intensive outpatient therapy with a therapist is often required to recover. Codependents Anonymous (CoDA), a 12-step group for individuals struggling with codependency, can also be helpful.
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