Sex can be a healthy part of life, but when it becomes compulsive or secretive, it can cause issues. If you are facing sex addiction, you might feel shame, or fear that things cannot change. If you are a partner or family member, you may feel hurt and confused. There is hope, and with professional help, many people reduce harmful behaviors and rebuild relationships.
At Promises Behavioral Health, we recognize that sex addiction can look different from person to person. For some, the pattern centers on pornography, masturbation, or anonymous sexual activities. For others, repeated sexual behaviors are a coping mechanism for stress, trauma, or loneliness. In treatment, you work to understand the root causes and practice safer ways to handle feelings and daily triggers.
What Is Sex Addiction?
Sex addiction is a common term for a pattern of sexual behavior that feels out of control and continues despite consequences. In clinical settings, many providers use the term “compulsive sexual behavior.” In 2022, the World Health Organization added the diagnosis of compulsive sexual behavior disorder to the ICD‑11, which helps clinicians describe symptoms and guide care.
Compulsive sexual behavior disorder is not the same as having a high sex drive. Common signs include spending large amounts of time planning sexual activities, repeated unsuccessful attempts to cut back, using sex to manage emotions, secrecy, and continuing behaviors after clear harms to work, finances, health, or relationships. People often describe guilt or shame after acting out.
When to Consider Getting Help
Common indicators of sex addiction include the following:
- You feel unable to limit sexual behaviors even after trying.
- Sexual activities cause conflict with your partner or family members.
- You hide pornography, chats, or encounters and feel increasing secrecy.
- You notice risky choices, such as unsafe sex or sex while using substances.
- You use sex to escape stress, anxiety, depression, or trauma memories.
How Treatment Helps
Effective sex addiction treatment focuses on both behavior change and the underlying causes. Therapy can help you build awareness of triggers, strengthen emotional regulation, and create practical barriers between urges and actions. Treatment also supports partners who have been affected, so everyone can learn healthy boundaries and communication.
Left unaddressed, sex addiction can lead to serious problems. These include relationship breakups, job loss, financial strain, sexually transmitted infections, unwanted pregnancy, and increased risk of substance abuse. With care, you can reduce harm, improve well-being, and move toward lasting recovery.
What Sex Addiction Treatment Looks Like
Your treatment plan is individualized based on your goals, safety, and any co‑occurring disorders. Depending on your needs, care may include:
- Individual therapy, where you identify patterns and practice new responses
- Group therapy, which adds accountability and peer support
- Cognitive behavioral therapy, a structured approach that helps you challenge thoughts that drive urges and rebuild healthier habits. A randomized trial found group CBT reduced symptoms and improved mental health for men with hypersexual disorder.
- Trauma‑informed care when trauma contributes to behaviors
- Couples counseling to support trust, boundaries, and shared recovery goals
- Support groups, including 12‑step options and alternatives, to expand ongoing support
Medication is not a cure for sex addiction, but certain prescriptions can help with co‑occurring depression, anxiety, obsessive thoughts, or intense urges. Options sometimes used include selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors, naltrexone, or mood stabilizers, prescribed on a case‑by‑case basis by a qualified clinician.
Do I Need Inpatient Care?
Inpatient sex addiction treatment or residential treatment can provide structure, safety, and intensive support. People may benefit from inpatient care if there is a risk of harm, severe co‑occurring disorders, or limited ability to avoid acting out in their current environment. Length can vary; many programs run for several weeks, and the full recovery process continues with step‑down care and aftercare. What matters most is that the level of care matches your needs.
Co‑occurring Conditions and Integrated Care
Sex addiction often overlaps with other mental health conditions, such as depression, anxiety, or obsessive patterns, and with substance use. Integrated treatment for co‑occurring disorders addresses all issues together, coordinated by one team. If you or a loved one also struggles with a substance, our teams can coordinate addiction treatment alongside therapy for sexual behaviors.
Pornography, Love, and Related Patterns
Many people reach out about pornography addiction, love addiction, or compulsive online behaviors. The label matters less than how the behaviors affect your life. If pornography, chat rooms, or online sexual activities are crowding out work, sleep, or relationships, treatment can help you set limits, reduce secrecy, and reconnect with your values.
Aftercare
Healing is not a single event; it is a process supported by structure and community. After residential or intensive outpatient care, people do best when they continue with therapy, support groups, accountability check‑ins, and skills practice that fit their daily routines. Promises Behavioral Health treatment centers offer alumni aftercare activities and resources to help you maintain gains and adjust your plan as life shifts. This ongoing support helps you navigate stress, celebrate progress, and return to recovery quickly after slips.
Insurance and Payment
Coverage varies. Sex addiction may be addressed under mental health or impulse‑control diagnoses, and benefits differ by plan. Some people use in‑network coverage for parts of care, while others use out‑of‑network benefits or private pay. We can verify your insurance benefits confidentially by phone and explain options. If you have questions about insurance, we are here to help you sort through them.
How Promises Behavioral Health Supports You
We take time to understand your story, not just your symptoms. Together we build a practical plan that reduces risks, supports your partner and family members when appropriate, and fits your life. If substances are part of the picture, we coordinate care across levels, from detox to outpatient therapy. If you are struggling today, we can help you map next steps that feel doable and safe.
Call 888.483.7451 to speak confidentially with our admissions team, or reach out to us online.
Frequently asked questions
Inpatient sex addiction treatment centers focus on providing a structured and supportive environment for individuals to overcome sex addiction through comprehensive rehab and recovery programs.
Inpatient programs offer a more intensive and immersive experience, with 24/7 support and a controlled environment, which can be beneficial for individuals needing a higher level of care and focus on recovery.
Sex addiction recovery programs often include individual counseling, group therapy, cognitive-behavioral therapy, and sometimes family therapy to address the underlying issues and promote long-term recovery.
Individuals can search online for ‘sex addiction treatment centers near me’ or contact local mental health professionals for recommendations on nearby facilities that offer specialized care.
During their stay, individuals can expect a structured daily schedule that includes therapy sessions, educational workshops, and activities designed to support recovery and help develop healthier coping mechanisms.
